谦以待人，虚以接物qiān yǐ dài rén , xū yǐ jiē wù

modest and unassuming in all one’s dealings
❍ 恰如对于那些弯腰拱手之辈，做起文章来，是要改作“～”的。(鲁迅《且介亭杂文二集·论讽刺》50) In the same way,you should describe those men who bow from the waist with clasped hands as “modest and unassuming in all their dealings.”