屈己待人

委屈自己，以礼待人。

屈己待人qū jǐ dài rén

efface oneself for others
❍ 百里挑一的妇女，～，跟赵玉林同志一模一样。(周立波《暴风骤雨》258) That woman is,indeed,one in a hundred. She effaces herself for others. She takes after her husband,Comrade Zhao Yulin.

屈己待人qū jǐ dài rén

意谓放下架子礼待他人。