没死没活méi sǐ méi huó

try hard;furiously; very roughly; regardless of the consequences
❍ 袭人这一惊不小，忙上来将他没死活的推醒。(《红楼梦》511) Xiren was shocked. She ran over and shook her hard.

没死没活méi sǐ méi huó

不管死和活。形容任意、不管不顾。清·曹雪芹《红楼梦》第四十一回：“袭人这一惊不小，慌忙的赶上来，将他没死没活的推醒。”