己所不欲，勿施于人(《论语·颜渊》)

Do not do unto others what you would not have them do unto you. or:What you don't want yourself,don’t do to others.(Analects of Confucius)
在如何对待和使用实力上，中国文化突出以德服人，“～” 等。With regard to the perception and use of power,the Chinese culture highlights the importance to convince others with virtues and the principle of “do not do unto others what you do not want others to do unto you”. or:On the use of power,the Chinese culture believes in the strength of moral persuation and views that one should not force upon others what one does not want for oneself.