受人一饭，听人使唤

受人好处，听人吩咐。鲁迅《南腔北调集·关于妇女解放》：“拿一匹小鸟关在笼中，……都听命于别人。俗语说，‘受人一饭，听人使唤’。”

受人一饭，听人使唤

比喻一旦得了他人的好处，必然要听人支配。

受人一饭，听人使唤

接受了人家的施舍，就得听人家的使唤。

受人一饭，听人使唤shòu rén yī fàn , tīng rén shǐ huàn

accept a meal and you must accept orders
❍ 拿一匹小鸟关在笼中，或给站在竿子上，地位好象改变了，其实还只是一样的在给别人做玩意，一饮一啄，都听命于别人。俗语说： “～”，就是这。(鲁迅《南腔北调集·关于妇女解放》156) If you let a small bird which has been shut up in a cage stand on a pole,its status appears to have changed; but actually it is still the plaything of men.Its every bite and sup are controlled by others. This is what is meant by the proverb: “Accept a meal and you must accept orders. ”